remove all references to fe_* from server.c, other than ctor/dtor

remove all mentions of struct session from server.c

basic batch support

Implements: https://todo.amehut.dev/~aleteoryx/sexchat/2

remove gui_ulist_style option

this is a suboptimal solution, but a more advanced theming system should be worked on later

Fixes: https://todo.amehut.dev/~aleteoryx/sexchat/12

remove usermenu

support for ircv3 echo-message

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